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What?Just a troll??

casainee — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 10:28:43 +0000

The story goes like this. There was a married man with a nick @sangSuami. His wife – @sangIsteri and sorang anak dara dono-who : @anakdara

Si anak dara in her twitter, wrote somthing like this:

@anakdara:
     Baru lepas merisik @lakiorang, lepas ni boleh lah meminang pulak!
So @sangIsteri ada baca and reply:
     @anakdara kenapa nak meminang @lakiorang ?
Then after a while she replied:
      @sangIsteri alamak. Hello akak. Bukan nak meminang betul2, nak interview encik @lakiorang untuk course project. ^^
So si isteri pun replied:
       @anakdara ohh tak tahu pulak i istilah ‘meminang’ sama dgn ‘interview’;) anyway g luck for the interview n your study.
Then minah ni balas lagi:
      @sangIsteri it was just a troll. Nyway thanks.
Lepas tu si isteri RASA nak balas ini: (tapi tak bls)
      @anakdara pungkuk hang!!

Apakah pendapat anda dengan situasi kecil di atas? Ini pendapat saya yang konservatif dan kolot ni:

Setiap orang esp wanita & anak dara perlulah berhati-hati dgn perkataan/sentence yang digunakan seharian kepada org lain. Silap ckp boleh mendatangkan perception yg berbeza pada orang lain. Perkara yg sama juga apabila berkata2 dgn suami org, wpun anda hanya kawan dlm dunia virtual shj. Kerana silap haribulan takut anda kena siat dgn isterinya. Itu kira ok lagi

Berbalik semula pada situasi di atas, memang kecil aje. Pada sang anak dara itu - it was just a troll!! Tapi, cuba para pembaca fikirkan, tak boleh ke sahaja gunakan “interview” instead of “meminang”? Mengapa perlu menarik perhatian orang lain dgn troll anda?? Haruslah isteri itu bertanya kan? I dont think the wife was so stupid to think that the girl is going to meminang his husband for real and aku pun tak rasa si isteri ingat laki dia ada affair with her…but obviously, si isteri ingin menegur anak dara itu ttg penggunaan katanya dlm twitter yg boleh dibaca oleh semua, terutamanya si isteri! Aku harap anak dara itu sedar kesilapan kecil yg dilakukan kerana dia juga akan jadi seorang isteri kelak.

So ingin saya berpesan-pesan kepada semua (termasuk diri saya sendiri) tak kira anda laki orang or isteri orang or org2 bujang, berhati2 lah dengan kata/tulisan anda yang digunakan dalam FB,Twitter - jgn senang2 kata “oh it was just a troll” ! Gunakanlah otak bijak yang Allah beri ini dan juga common sense anda.

Here, I rest my case. Peace!

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Yuhuuu…Mama is back!!

casainee — Fri, 16 Jul 2010 05:19:22 +0000

Hahaha…gila bersawang laman aku ni. The last post was 24 Dec 2009…perghh!

Ohh I’m really excited about getting my so-called normal life back. So eager to write again. Many things I want to share and tell. Let me give u a peek:

1) Of course citer si debab Najwa yang sibuk nak berdiri and berjalan,
2) Si Kakak Husna yang baik, but lately suka nagis bila orang lain hantar dia ke sekolah,
3) Husband aku yang dot dot dot..(heh, to be decided)
4) Nak review all my BF gadgets,
5) Nak kutuk-kutuk orang,
6) Mmm…tunggu ajelah.

So my beloved frens+family, do visit me ya…
Chiowww! Salam.

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Berita Gumbira

casainee — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 06:48:24 +0000

Di penghujung tahun 2009 ni, dan di awal tahun 1431 Hijrah ni… ada 3 berita gumbira yang ku terima:

SATU - TAHNIAH kepada Aida Mastura bte Kapi, adik ipo ku yang bongsu dan paling besar, kerana mendapat 6A untuk PMR. Takpe dik, Arab D pun tak kisah, Kak Azyan ko bukan nak kawin dengan orang Arab pung…huhahahaha…

Adik2 Ipo ku (dari kiri) : Awa, Azyan, and the montel girl AIDA.. (pic credit to Kuizikel)

DUA – TAHNIAH kepada Muhd Ameer Ashman bin Azahar, my beloved cousin, kerana mendapat Sekolah Sultan Alam Shah, Putrajaya. Katanya, sekolah yang dihajati….tak kisah la Ashman, jangan ko nangis sudahhh, sebenarnya akak nak ko masuk MRSM Muar (awat tak kewlnya website ni, Amran ko volunteer la buat baru), menyambung legasi konon, dari Papa and Kak Suria. Anyway, pesanan untuk orang2 Putrajaya – Amad, Nabilah & Adik Nisa, lepas ni boleh lah kita kidnap Ashman;)

Masa birthday Aiiman (Gave present to Ashman too;)

TIGA – TAHNIAH kepada diri saya sendiri dan suami ku chenta, kerana loan rumah kita sudah lulus. YEAYYYY!!

**Update : Berita baru di terima (jam 4.15pm), loan keta ku pun dah lulusssss….YEAYYYY tiga kali. ALHAMDULILLAH.

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Hello World !

casainee — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 12:07:13 +0000

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$weight = ‘2.75′;
$timeofbirth = ‘16.38′;
$dob = ‘12/10/2009′;
$name = X;

echo “Hello World $name”;
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5th Anniversary =)

casainee — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 06:50:16 +0000

Semoga perkahwinan kami kekal bahagia, dirahmati, dilindungi Allah, cekal dengan ujian2 yang mendatang, dikurniakan anak-anak yang soleh,…di dunia dan di akhirat. Aminnn!

P/s: Ohh..ramai (dululah), kawan2 aku tanya – camna aku bleh kawin dengan Amran…ngeh, ngeh, ngeh…selain dari ‘minyak senyonyong’ yang dia calitkan pada aku (dari mana kena contact dia lah..), dia bagi aku lagu ni..*wink” *wink*. I luv u, bebey!

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casainee — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 02:55:31 +0000

My dear Amran,
I wish I could give a present to show how much you mean to me but I guess the condition of my tummy now, at least could describe it

Happy birthday, sayang. May Allah bless us and hopefully all your wishes come true! Amin.

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casainee — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 05:44:18 +0000

Here are the top ten signs that women should aware of:

10. Tender, swollen breasts
YES. Ya, I feel the soreness just like before having period.

9. Fatigue
DEFINITELY!! So demn tired!

8. Implantation bleeding
Oh tade la pulak.

7. Nausea or vomiting
OH YES. 3 to 4 times a day!! Matilah…

6. Increased sensitivity to odors
Aah. Aku sekarang tutup hidung kalau masuk lift. Semua orang busuk!

5. Abdominal bloating
My clothes feel snugger than usual at the waistline…senak!

4. Frequent urination
YUP. Muka aku je kat toilet skrg ni…

3. A missed period
Huhuhu…yup, i missed my period already.

2. Your basal body temperature stays high
Ye kot..

1. The proof: A positive home pregnancy test
FINALLY, YES. I am 6 weeks pregnant! (speechless)

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casainee — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 15:15:25 +0000

So, nak tahu jadi ke tak…itu kena tanya Amran. (Heh, dia mesti ckp jadi la kan;)

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casainee — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 08:23:44 +0000

Tahun ni aku rasa permulaan tahun baru yang tidak berapa ‘indah’ dan ’sedap’ didengar. Baru sahaja sampai ke Melaka (dari Kuala Selangor), kami dapat panggilan dari Abah (abah mertuaku) menyampaikan berita sedih – isteri Man Jamat (pakcik Amran) telah kembali ke rahmatullah malam itu. Esoknya, Amran bertolak sendirian ke Klang.

Malam sabtu lepas pula, sms dari Mas Ayu – sekali lagi berita sedih yang ayahnya baru sahaja menghembuskan nafas terakhirnya. Aku masih tak berkesempatan melawat dia and family:(

Itu tak masuk lagi berita di Palestin…Sedih & sayu sangat tengok budak2 yang byk cedera and mati. Mereka kehilangan keluarga, harta dan even negara kerana perang. Apa yang kita di Msia ni boleh buat? Kekuatan orang mukmin adalah pada doa. Bacalah doa ini – Qunut Nazilah setiap kali semasa/selepas sembahyang. Di sini detailsnya:
1) Palestin: Lagi Usaha kita dan Doa Qunut berbaris by UZAR.
2) Doa Qunut Nazilah dan Terjemahannya from MUIS.
3) Di bawah ni, aku jumpa tp ada sedikit perbezaan, anyway boleh juga dibaca sebagai doa.

Qunut Nazilah

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Semoga Allah melindungi dan merahmati kita semua. Amin.

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casainee — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 10:01:32 +0000

Abah Hafit has passed away yesterday morning. I received sms from Hana around 4am. Since we just came back from Genting, I read without notice that she was talking about Abah Hafit. I woke up around 630am for prayer, I read again the sms. Innalillah wa inna ilaihi rojioon. I didnt know what todo, should I call her or reply her sms. I didnt realize that I took almost 1 hour to call Hana. She talked calmly and told me that she have passed the pedas-linggi already. Her friend drove for her, and the kids were ok and sleeping. Then I asked her what happened to Abah, since I know he didnt suffer with any illness. Then, I heard the silence pause..Hana was crying.

After I have settled everything (my leave, my appointments, adik-adik Amran & Husna), me and Amran decided to go and visit her at Kuala Selangor. We knew, sure we missed the funeral but I guess I should be there for Hana. We safely arrived at 5.30pm. Mak Siti talked about Abah, what he did, where he went and how Abah has persuaded her to follow him go fishing – thing that he never did before. Tak sangka itu adalah ‘hari’ terakhirnya.

Abah Hafit has always been good and kind person. One thing, I am very sure is, he was a very loving father. Since I am close to Hana, tempias kasih-sayangnya terkena pada ku juga.

My deepest condolence to my dear Hanayanti and family over the passing of Abah Hafit. My prayer goes to Una too, the youngest sis who is very strong, facing this feeling alone in USA. Be strong, sis!

Abah Hafit, may you rest in peace and may Allah keep him amongst the best of people and the closest to Him. Al-Fatihah.

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